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Mary Katherine Hanneman

Mary Katherine Hanneman
  • October 21, 1932 - December 26, 2018
  • Sun Prairie, Wisconsin
  • In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to:
  • Sacred Hearts School Endowment Fund
    221 Columbus St.
    Sun Prairie, WI 53590

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Mary K. Hanneman, age 86, stepped gently into eternity Wednesday, Dec. 26, 2018. Mary was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and longtime Catholic School teacher at Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary School in Sun Prairie, where she has lived since 1965. Mary was born in Cudahy, Wisconsin, on Oct. 21, 1932 — the seventh of 11 children of Earl J. Mulqueen Sr. and the former Margaret Madonna Dailey. On Aug. 9, 1958, she married David Hanneman, beginning a more than 49-year marriage. He preceded her in death on April 14, 2007.

Mary is survived by her children: David (Lisa) Hanneman of Naperville, IL; Joe Hanneman of Sun Prairie, Marghi Hanneman of DeForest, Amy Bozza of Woodstock, IL; and a special niece, Laura (Doug) Curzon of New Berlin,. She is further survived by nine grandchildren: Abby, Maggie and Charlie Hanneman; Stevie, Samantha and Ruby Hanneman; and Justin, Kyle and Claire Bozza. She leaves two sisters, Ruth (Tom) McShane and Joan (Dick) Haske, both of Cudahy. She was preceded in death by her husband, her parents and eight brothers and sisters.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 12:00 pm. on Saturday, January 5, 2019 at Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Catholic Church, 227 Columbus Street in Sun Prairie. Monsignor Duane Moellenberndt will preside. Burial will be at Sacred Hearts Cemetery. A visitation will be held on Saturday morning at Tuschen-Newcomer Funeral Home 302 Columbus St., Sun Prairie from 10:00 a.m. until 11:45 a.m.

In lieu of flowers memorials can be made to Sacred Hearts School Endowment Fund or the Sun Prairie Colonial Club.

Tuschen-Newcomer Funeral & Cremation
Sun Prairie, WI 608-837-5400
www.newcomerfh.com

A FINAL LESSON IMPARTED, THEN HEAVENWARD
reprinted from HannemanArchive.com

Suddenly, the world will never, ever be the same.

Mary K. Hanneman stepped gently into eternity Wednesday, Dec. 26, 2018, after a long struggle with vascular dementia and congestive heart failure. Our Blessed Lord summoned his precious daughter, my mother, at 11:50 p.m. from her home at Brookdale Senior Living. She was 86 years 2 months and 5 days young. Mary was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and longtime Catholic school teacher in Sun Prairie, where she has lived since 1965.

Mary Katherine Mulqueen was born in Cudahy, Wisconsin, on Oct. 21, 1932 — the seventh of 11 children of Earl J. Mulqueen Sr. and the former Margaret Madonna Dailey. On Aug. 9, 1958, she married David Dion Hanneman at St. Veronica Catholic Church in Milwaukee, beginning a more than 49-year marriage. He preceded her in death on April 14, 2007. He was 74.

For Mary, every day was a good day to teach. She had the heart of an educator, the discipline and courage of a gunnery sergeant and, under it all, the strong yet soft heart of an Irish grandmother. Above the entrance to her kitchen hung a sign that read Failte, — an Irish welcome. Over the years, countless relatives, friends and strangers were welcomed within those walls to incredible cooking, good cheer and, very likely, a game or two of sheepshead, Kings in the Corner or cribbage.

Like most things in the Hanneman family, good teaching started at home. Mary's kitchen table was just as likely to serve up arithmetic flash cards and sentence diagrams as it did Thanksgiving turkeys or chocolate chip cookies. She imparted many life lessons in her kitchen, from the academic (long division and phonics) to the culinary (corned beef with cabbage, lasagna and state-fair-quality bread and cinnamon rolls). Through the chaos and bustle of the annual  Thanksgiving dinner, we came to appreciate the gift of family — warts and all.

Mary's academic career began at St. Frederick's Catholic School in Cudahy and St. Mary's Academy in St. Francis, from which she graduated high school in 1950. After a brief postsecondary discernment at the suburban Franciscan convent, she took courses at Cardinal Stritch College and Marquette University. She studied reading literacy for elementary students for two years in Madison. Mary began practice teaching in the Catholic Schools in the Archdiocese of Milwaukee. She eventually became a full-time teacher in the newly built 17-room St. Veronica Catholic School on East Norwich Avenue in Milwaukee.

After their marriage in 1958, Mary and Dave moved to Grand Rapids, Michigan, where he held a job with E.R. Squibb & Co. She paused her teaching career to start and raise a family that came to include two boys and two girls. As a doctorate-level domestic engineer, she honed her skills wrangling hungry toddlers through the bedlam of birthday parties, sewing costumes, darning socks and hosting couples' bridge. She set high standards for her children and expected them to reach even higher. Especially at school. She modeled her own saintly mother's family virtuosity with things like bunny-shaped birthday cakes topped with coconut flakes and jellybeans. Or trips to Devil's Lake and Storybook Gardens with four children in tow.

Mary learned her lessons well from "Ma," Margaret M. Mulqueen. Her mother went out of her way to make family events special for her husband Earl, who lost both of his parents young and was denied most of childhood's delectations.  "Every year, we always celebrated Christmas. My mother made Christmas really special," Mary said in an oral-history interview with granddaughter Ruby in 2009. "But especially his birthday. He never had a birthday cake growing up. Isn't that sad? And yet grew up to be such a nice man."

In 1965 Mary and Dave built their dream home in Sun Prairie's then-new Royal Oaks neighborhood. Seventeen stately oak trees towered over the property. Much love went into building and maintaining the family homestead that stayed in the Hanneman family for 53 years. She spent those years caring for her family with special birthday meals, wonderful Christmas mornings and a thrifty way with money that allowed her and Dave to put four children through Madison Edgewood High School.

In 1980, Mary resumed her teaching career at Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Catholic School. She started as a substitute, but before long was a full-time reading specialist. She helped along the students who otherwise would

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